In need of help of losing bestfriends...?

I'm in my 20s and I've been through it. I will say this. THEY WERE NOT TRUE FRIENDS FROM THE START! I will never ever turn on my best friend because of some senseless drama. If anything I'll take the time to sit down with my friend and talk things out with him/her. I wouldn't ignore her over some dumb drama. Also, I wouldn't choose my bf over my best friend. Because that is my best friend...my best friend has been in the picture way longer than my boyfriend. They're not real friends hunni. Most of the time you lose your friends after high school, you soon grow apart. And I bet you that those other three girls are going to grow apart as well.You're not missing anything. You're not losing anything. And I wish I knew the whole story and there are two sides to every story. But oh well